puppy play with young children

[MrStig]

My 6 year old son is thrilled to have a wonderful new puppy to play with. But what we're discovering is that he (my son) is encouraging the puppy to run, jump on him, nip and pull on his shirt and pants and, unfortunately, even hump on his leg. What can we do to help train dog and child to play more appropriately and constructively? Any suggestions?

[Zephyr]

Start obedience classes and involve your son, let him do some of the training. That way they are both learning how to appropriately interact with each other.

[MrStig]

Great suggestion. We found a class locally and will begin lessons tomorrow morning. Thanks!

[canadianfreespirit]

it's also very important that you never allow your child to be alone with the pup unsupervised. behaviour that starts at this age can increase as the dog gets older, and your son won't realize the potential dangers he could be creating. adult supervision at all times is crucial. the pup is a family dog, not your sons. you son is far too young to understand and be able to take the responsibility involved in caring for and training the pup.
but it sounds like you're very much on the right track with the obedience classes, and my pal Zephyr knows what they are talking about. that's advice you can trust.

[MrStig]

you've both been very helpful. thank you.
our first class was interesting and my son seems intent on helping. The dog still plays differently with him than with me, but I realize that my son brings on that aggressive play by his own aggressive style. We have a lot of work to do, but the classes will definitely help.

[canadianfreespirit]

please keep us posted. I'm glad to hear how things are going so far. and, in spite of what I've heard some people say, pups are not trained overnight. it's a work in progress. as long as you can help your son to see where he's encouraging aggressive play (and offer something more appropriate right away), I think you're on the way. but we'll be watching for updates. thanks.